Reply To: How much say should parents appropriately have in who their children marry? Home › Forums › Shidduchim › How much say should parents appropriately have in who their children marry? › Reply To: How much say should parents appropriately have in who their children marry? June 9, 2017 2:44 pm at 2:44 pm #1292532 Moshe1994Participant The answer is No to all 4 questions.