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pba

We can do this on every thread and dance around the issue. There is a difference between wanting a wife that you are attracted to and wanting to ___________ the minute you see her. One is normal and the other well, youre an animal.

“There are two aspects of this that women will never understand”

Oh believe me, we understand more than you think.

No one is saying you have to marry a dog, but throwing up your hands and saying well, this is how I was created, cant do anything about it, goes against pretty much the whole premise of Judaism.

Heck, I feel like a cheeseburger for lunch. Cant help it, its my nature, I crave meat and milk.

charliehall

“I looked up that gemara last night. It say you aren’t supposed to be repulsed”

Thank you!

Somehow I knew that Gemora was being misquoted.