“lilmod, I’d consider it a problem if she didn’t know how to bake and instead of taking baking lessons she, instead, focused on mastering the Ramban.”
Seriously? You know how many girls don’t know how to cook or bake before they get married and they become excellent cooks once they are married? When a girl is single, she has an opportunity to learn that she probably won’t have once she is married, so why shouldn’t she take advantage of it?