Reply To: Chareidi Engagement? Home › Forums › Decaffeinated Coffee › Chareidi Engagement? › Reply To: Chareidi Engagement? June 1, 2015 1:01 am at 1:01 am #1085476 bais yakov maidelParticipant I retract. Girl not talking on the dates is not a red flag. It is a MAJOR red flag, IMO.