“Actually, online, someone can choose to project a certain identity if they want to, just for fun, in a way which might not be quite as feasible in real life. Just saying. :)”
I don’t want to cause machlokes, but it seems to me that the ribono shel olam bentched everyone with their own personality and their own ma’alos–and everyone, I mean everyone, is special the way they are–and it doesn’t seem like anyone would change that, even “for fun”.
And sometimes people feel if only they would have been created differently, if only they would be smarter, or funnier, or anything, then it would be much bettter. But the truth is that hashem knows what’s best for us, and he’s there looking out for us, always.