Actually, Sam2 is correct, and Lior is building a straw man. Whether or not Lior’s community holds by that chumrah, its stringency as it relates to his community has no bearing on jfem02’s question, since this is something that differs by community, aka, minhag. So strongly asserting that jfem02’s community might possibly be noheg is useless; jfem02 simply has to contact her LOR and ask what is the minhag of her community. End of story.
