Reply To: Is it ever proper to withhold a get? Home › Forums › Decaffeinated Coffee › Is it ever proper to withhold a get? › Reply To: Is it ever proper to withhold a get? August 24, 2014 4:00 am at 4:00 am #1032086 Rav TuvParticipant Sam, I may be wrong but I don’t think the woman gives the get.