Daas Yochid- thank you! It definitly till this day is a minor struggle becuase people make comments, but in a way Hashem blessed me because it has only made me stronger!
I think the matters of tznious obviously arent simple, but I think if they were expressed differently to young girls when they have to start dressing in a tzanua fashion, to show them that it comes along with alot of benefits and its not just for the sake of fitting into a mould and having a specific look. I think the only way to teach it is without forcing it, but showing that along with the middah of tznious comes a life filled not only with brachos, but with higher self esteem, self growth and a stronger connection to Hakadosh Baruch Hu!
Thank you for your posts Daas Yochid!