oomis1105, read Rav Pinchos Scheinberg’s practical piece for women (and men) on how to clean for Pesach( http://www.orchos.org/torah/chagim/pesach/pesachcleaningprint.html).
L’halacha your home is complete in a few hours.
Also, how can you compare the enjoyment you derive when you’ve worked for something as compared to when it’s just handed to you? Freedom here does not mean freedom from work or mitzvos, it means freedom to serve Hashem.