getting back on topic, the gemara says that “Rav Yehudah in the name of Rav, who says that forty days before the creation of the embryo a Bas Kol issues forth and pronounces his Zivug (“Bas Ploni l’Ploni”)”(sotah daf bais) so i was wondreing how can it be if there are not a even amount of boys and girls? obviously men are meant to have multiple wives.
